There are several ways to determine a person’s capability. A person can be judged through educational attainment, amount of salary or savings that that person has and many more. But a person’s personality is something which makes that particular person different from any other. In general personality is the overall qualities of a person. It includes his or her coping mechanisms, attitude to a particular situation, beliefs, aspiration, his or her character and even temperament. But how does a person’s personality develop? Is it something inborn, or is personality made? According to Psychology there are several things that can affect and are responsible in shaping a person’s personality such as birth order. The relevance of birth order to personality was first proposed by Alfred Adler. According to him, birth order determines or guides a person’s personality because of a made up expectation to a child even before he or she learns to behave on things. Children are already expected to behave into a particular list things because it has been the norm of the society. The birth order theory includes the first born, second born, middle, and the last born or as the only child. According to Adler the following are the shaped personalities according to birth order: First Born – Tends to become achievers, controlling, and reliable, independent, perfectionist, structured and cautious. These traits are often associated with child rearing, since the first born are always entrusted or tasked to look after their younger siblings. And as the first born grows older, it will play a huge part in the development of personality. Middle Child – We often hear about middle child syndrome which describes the crisis of being in between an older and a younger sibling. The birth order triggers the middle child to feel less wanted because the first born is entrusted with the responsibility and then the youngest becomes the favorite. Middle children tend to become secretive, short tempered, and prone to become rebellious but are good when it comes to socializing with other people. Youngest – The youngest child in the family is considered to be the favorite of all. Although parents would try to give equal treatment to their children, it is the youngest child who will get all the attention and care. With the abundance of love and attention the youngest kids can become manipulative, self-centered, dependent, attention seeker but at the same time they are outgoing, they are good in dealing emotions and are often relaxed.
If you are not familiar with Fidget spinners being sold online and you wonder about its purpose, then you might want first to learn about fidgeting. Fidgeting in psychology is actually a certain response of your body that corresponds to non-verbal communication. There are varying types of fidgeting and it depends on the person’s behavior, coping and intentions. Since it holds different meanings on every person, some form of fidgeting may appear annoying to others, thus to perhaps manage the unnecessary movements fidget spinners were made. However, there is no scientific evidence that these spinners are actually therapeutic. Fidgeting in nature is therapeutic however, such as snapping one’s fingers every time a person tries to recall on something, or when someone bit their lips when they feel a bit embarrassed. These are the things that fidget spinners could not actually replace. Fidgeting is a natural response. It allows a person to cope to a certain situation without being in sane. It is like defense mechanisms but more on the non-verbal aspect. It doesn’t have therapeutic effects and it is quite surprising for it to become part of the social trend. But if you wonder why it made rounds in the social media, the answer is because of profit. Fidget spinners can be found everywhere. Sellers are actually taking advantage of the trend. Some people are not even aware what fidgeting is and how fidget spinners could allegedly help. When people become curious they will not mind shedding off some cash just to try what’s in store for them. Trying to fit in the social trend is much more difficult to deal compared to an involuntary bodily response. Don’t fall for things that will just take away your cash and you end up like a fool. Although fidget spinner could actually be a good option when you are feeling bored it does not necessarily mean that it is capable of eliminating your stress level. People buy fidget spinners just to show off and it’s not really something one should be interested about.
Since it has been launched and introduced by NOKIA, people were extremely excited for the most memorable cellular phone in history which is the NOKIA 3310. It became formally available in the Philippines just this May 2017. However even before its formal release several people were already selling it online. Aside from the unexpected date of release, they are even selling it more than half the price of the introductory price. Well, these sellers are actually selling the clone ones and not the original. In the online shopping world, when someone claims a product as clone it means that the product were assembled or created by a different company. It is not the official item being released and in the simplest form it can be fake. Although it is quite disappointing that the clone ones were first to become available compared to the original one, a number of people were actually interested to buy despite the fact that it can be fake. The NOKIA 3310, is priced at P2490 in the Philippines. Meanwhile the clone ones can be bought at around P650 - P800 depending on the supplier. A huge difference of P1600 is absolutely big. No wonder a lot of people became interested to purchase one. However is it really worth your money? Because of social trend and social pressure people impulsively buy things because they wanted to be part of the trend and so they settle for the substandard ones. With the big price difference, you can expect for a huge difference also in terms of quality, battery life, software interphase and durability. Since Nokia has been much known for creating sturdy phones that are absolutely shockproof, you should not be surprised if your clone NOKIA 3310 won’t last as expected. Clones are copycats of the original. However the similarity of the products is limited to its appearance only. They might look the same from the outside, but never in the inside. Even the software would surely matter between the two. As of the moment there are already variations of NOKIA 3310 clones. Some were said to be made in Taiwan and US. If you really want to re-experience the thrill and the amazement of having a NOKIA phone, you better stay with the original because after all, it is for this reason that it became really popular and even become legendary.
Nowadays it has been so common to buy stuff online. Online shopping has even become more prominent nowadays because of the convenience that it can offer. You can shop from different parts of the country without even going out. It becomes even more convenient knowing that you will just have to browse it online. Another reason also is because online items are somewhat cheaper than those sold in malls, online sellers would claim that it is because they don’t have to pay for a space at all. The only scary thing about it is its authenticity. How sure are you that you are buying authentic good on your first purchase? Have you ever encountered products being sold online? They are remarkably intriguing because of super low prices. Sellers would often claim that these products came from large manufacturing companies and that the products have minimal packaging defects and were not able to pass the quality control assessment. These products are often used at home and some are even necessities. You can find shampoos, lotion, bath soap, baby powder and many more. Take note that these products are not brand less or those that don’t have packing stickers. In fact these products are known brands which is why it is quite hard to check its authenticity. The best way to validate whether a product is fake or not is by analyzing its price. If it is 50% - 80% less than the regular price then it should alarm you already. You might also wish to ask whether they are legit company distributors. If they will just tell you that they got their supplies from certain supplier then it’s time to change your mind. Most of the time products delivered by a distributor came from a single company with various products. If the seller is selling different products with different brands then it is another warning signal you should never ignore. You might be thinking of the money you can by buying these products online. However you are actually risking your health and even your family. Since it is hard to validate if the product is real, think of what chemicals it contains. Chemical products can potentially cause cancer and even poisoning. In a way your future medical bills will surely make you regret buying fake grocery products online.
Marriage is something that requires a good amount of preparation. It is actually one of the biggest events or occasions in any family. It is also a special family gathering that often illuminates joy, prosperity and the union of two families. For women it is one of the most awaited part of being a woman next to becoming a mother. Since it is important to plan everything to make it really special and memorable, setting a date is such a wonderful task. In weddings, the month of June appears to be the favorite, but why? When someone is getting married during the month of June, it is as if that wedding is sure to be extra special. Being a June bride is quite in demand for so many people that it already became a norm. But what’s really special about having your wedding on this particular month? In early years people are driven by their beliefs in gods and goddesses. According to Roman Mythology, the word or the month June is actually derived from Roman goddess of Marriage, Juno. It is as if the marriage will become really fruitful and strong because it has the blessings of that particular God who keeps or guards on marriages. Another thing is that during the medieval period, people will only take a bath once a year. They call it the annual bath. Although it may sound gross but it’s actually true. The annual bath usually falls between the month of May and June. Most women then decided to be wed on June so that they still look fresh and they don’t have to worry about body odor. The use of bouquets were actually designed to hide that unpleasant smell they got because they only bathe once a year. In a more practical view, other couples would prefer to be wed on the month of June thinking that they could conceive right after the wedding. The child will then be born on the month of March which is very much ideal for a child when he or she starts to go to school. Since the start of classes is on June, the child will then be fit for his or her age to enroll. The child will not be too young or too old for his or her level then.
Financial stability is something that you will encounter when you start working and earning money. Actually you need to face it whether you are employed or not. It is something that you can’t escape. However the earlier you try to handle it the better. If you are already earning it is best to save something out of your daily salary regardless of how small it is. It is always best to think of the future and be prepared for any emergencies. However saving money is not the only way to become financially stable. There are a lot of ways on how you can make use of your money and investment is just one of these. Sometimes it’s a bit hard to invest your money in banks with their investment programs because of the huge minimum amount that they require. Investing your money in a business can be a bit risky as well especially if you don’t have any knowledge or experience in running a business. But leaving your money in your savings account isn’t a good idea as well. One of the best ways to make use of your money without the risk of losing it is investment in things such as jewelries. The good thing jewelries is that you can eventually use it in times of emergency by having it pawned. You can get cash from it but you still have the chance to get it back. It is handy and you can even wear them. Also, the market price or the value of jewelries do not entirely depreciate. In history, the price of gold constantly goes up through the years. It is like a real estate investment. It doesn’t depreciate, rather its value increases as time pass by. However it is important to choose the type of jewelry that you wish to buy or invest your money with. Go for small pieces in a number of quantity. Do not invest all of your money on a very expensive piece because you will then find it difficult to get it back once it has been pawned. Also the value you can get will largely depend on the pawnshop. Pawnshops have different appraisal values and interests. Make sure to choose the one suitable to your current financial capability.
If you are reading this then you are most likely a middle child who is looking for confirmation that you really feel special because of your controversial birth order. Although less attention is given to middle children during child rearing, middle children became an interesting target for research because of their complicated situation. Children who were born on such order have great qualities especially when it comes to coping and socialization. But what are the most common traits that makes up a middle child? Here is the list: 1. A part of you will always feel that nobody cares about you – it is the most fundamental feeling that the middle children share. It starts when you just don’t know who or what you should be. The parents are busy making your older sibling responsible and at the same time they are busy looking after and enjoying your younger sibling. 2. You were used to being alone but you are not even sad about it – although not all middle children are introverts, there is a strong force that pushes a middle child to enjoy a moment of himself or herself to meditate or to think of plans especially when a decision has to be made. 3. You talk to yourself vocally – although it wasn’t intentional, most middle kids were not given the chance to voice out their opinion because it is the job of the older sibling and such decisions are actually made for the benefit of the youngest child. In a way, middle children have been used to voice out their thoughts to their selves alone. They do it because they actually value listening to opinion since they weren’t given that chance when they were young. 4. You always think that you are not your parents’ favorite – parental biases will always take place no matter how many times parents say that they don’t have favoritism among their children. Meanwhile, the middles would voluntarily take the place of not being the favorite child or the less appreciated one because they have been used to sacrifice ever since they became a middle child. 5. It always comes to you to consider other people’s feelings before you make any decision – although this may sound too kind this is actually true for almost all middle kids. Since they were used to get caught in the middle they learned how it feels to be on top of someone and at the same time find themselves in the bottom. 6. You feel a bit distant and secretive to your own family – this is a thing that only middle children could understand. It may sound rebellious but it is not. Since they were used being left behind or that their opinions don’t really matter at all, they become cautious in opening up or trusting a family member.
Are you feeling old and you feel really pressured because of your age? Sometimes it’s a bit frustrating and at the same time frightening that you become older yet you still don’t have a family of your own or perhaps a house, car, or worse a good paying job. However these are all social demands that any person is currently facing. There are ways to handle these things but it is important to live a life with manageable amount of stress. Age is just a number and you can always be the person you want to be regardless of that number you have in your birth certificate. Take for example this Grandpa who became really popular because of his OOTD’s. Despite of his notable age, he is still trying to fit in with the trendiest clothes and outfits. He is not the typical Gramps who would rather stay at home and spend their afternoon taking a nap. This guy right here is still enjoying his time no matter how old he seems to appear. He is the living proof that indeed age is just a number. Your positive thoughts can always overcome your worries and even your age. He maybe old with his body but he has a young mind that knows how to chill and enjoy life even when he is already in his twilight years. According to him, young people should not forget to enjoy their lives. They should give themselves time to relax and release stress. It is also important to look good and feel good because it releases positive energy. It can give a positive outlook in life. And when you are positive about it you will enjoy every minute of your life. When asked why he loves to dress in trendy clothes, he said he was just really into clothes and he don’t want to miss the fun of wearing such clothes. He have been through a lot of changes when it comes to fashion trends and he thinks it’s fun to be part of the changing trend and still rocking it.